Tuesday, 16 July 2013

Who's in the shower with you???

Many of our daily activities are done on auto pilot.  We do them every day without thinking about them or noticing anything about them. Take having a shower, most of us end up thinking about what we are going to do later or start thinking about work.  Instead practice mindfulness and get your day off to a calm and focused start.  Mindfulness helps us step out of auto pilot. It helps us create more space for awareness.  When we are more aware we can change our response to our thoughts, habits and feelings.

So next time you are in the shower, check who is in the shower with you.  Are you already in a meeting at work? You may be having the whole meeting in the shower, going through conversations that you imagine you will have. You could find that you start to experience stressful responses or emotional responses to something that has yet to happen or may never happen.  But your body does not know that you are not in the meeting therefore you could already be stressed and having a full blown anxiety experience before leaving the shower. When in reality it hasn't even happened.

Who's In The Shower With You????

Try to just be in the shower, in that moment and not anywhere else.

Feel the temperature of the water and the sensation of the water hitting your skin, maybe its tingling?  Become aware of the water as it flows down your head and onto your body.  How does the water feel around your feet?  Notice the sensations of shampooing your hair, the scent of the shampoo and shower gel. Be mindful of where you are and experience the moment.
If you mind wanders to the day ahead, and it will! Gently bring your mind back to the shower and what you are aware of.

Just bringing mindfulness into one of your daily activities can help you begin your day calm and focused.  Once you have experienced a mindful shower perhaps choose another daily activity to do mindfully.  The more time spent being mindful less time being spent feeling stressed and with a busy mind.